Do I spend adequate quality time with other members of my family? 

Do I show appreciation for things my family has done for me? 

Are there things I could do now to bring about a potentially happy marriage and family life?

Should I seek out books and classes that would help prepare me to be a successful parent?

Does anyone in my household use tobacco? 

Do I recognize the needs and desires of other family members?

Do I speak up too much or too little in my family?  

Is there too much fighting in my family?  

Are there ways I could help reduce this? 

Are there too many rules in my family?

If there were fewer rules, would it give me more freedom?

Can I honestly say I would handle the freedom in a natural way?

Am I considerate in my handling of misunderstandings between family members?

Do I come from a broken or divorced family?          

Given the present situation, is there anything I could do to strengthen my own character or family ties?

Could I possibly use outside help such as counselling, friends, etc. to assist me in attaining a solid family now or in the future?